The Impossible Trap of Certainty

The Impossible Trap of Certainty is what happens when every response is taken as proof of a story someone has already decided is true.

Agreement confirms the story. Disagreement confirms it too. An explanation becomes defensiveness. A boundary becomes punishment. Nothing the other person says can change the interpretation.

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